tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4912771073425710533.post1691992521092836930..comments2022-11-16T05:29:44.117-08:00Comments on The Reason for my Insanity: Why? Do some Feel the need??Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09460752362211123698noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4912771073425710533.post-56109339204387751872010-05-22T09:27:27.549-07:002010-05-22T09:27:27.549-07:00Hi...I have 4 boys and 4 girls. I have had people ...Hi...I have 4 boys and 4 girls. I have had people make comments to me...like..Oh! you've been busy. (in a "snicker" kind of attitude) And some man made a comment in different words that all me and my husband do is spend time in bed!!And then my sister-in-law..my husbands sister made the comment...so your're done now? Like its any of her business. And she had the same thing in mind that my husband and I spend too much time in the bedroom. And she acts like she is better than everyone and that she is above stuff like that. I would wear the t-shirt when you are out with your boys. It should stop people from saying anything. But then there are alot of real ignorant people out there who always have to say something. I wanted a large family. I would have had 2 more..but had to stop to keep my health. And would'nt trade my 8 for the world either!!!!<br />But on the postive side I have had people congratulate me on having such a large family. I even had a boss who shook my hand and congratulated me!!! A funny incident a co-worker at a new job I started...almost choked on her water when I told her how many kids I had!!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06428967595703608317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4912771073425710533.post-27776714618585085862010-05-21T10:02:40.994-07:002010-05-21T10:02:40.994-07:00I kind of get upset when people say "Oh you h...I kind of get upset when people say "Oh you have a girl and a boy. You can be done now" Really, I can? Thanks, but hubby and I will be the judge of when we are "done."Kelly Rufkahrhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02261161648272304434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4912771073425710533.post-64962267842207953782010-05-20T17:49:05.987-07:002010-05-20T17:49:05.987-07:00Julie, A truely complete woman IMO? Is a woman w...Julie, A truely complete woman IMO? Is a woman who is happy and satisfied with her life. Sounds like you're happy to me! I'm without children and what do I hear? "you wouldn't understand, you don't have children" HAH! Guess what nutcase, I helped raise 4 of my brother's children when he and my SIL were working long hard hours to save for their first house. People who feel the need to tell you how to live and feel, need to think twice and then not say a word! You have three handsome little men!Cyndyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06117624228006351280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4912771073425710533.post-35430926247147068762010-05-20T13:25:07.765-07:002010-05-20T13:25:07.765-07:00I feel your pain! I'm at the opposite end of ...I feel your pain! I'm at the opposite end of the spectrum with 3 girls and we get comments all the time too. All we can do is smile and say we love our girls or my hubby likes to say, "we can't help it- we make beautiful girls!" Some people just have diarrhea of the mouth... sometimes ya gotta just give 'em a look and walk away... I swear, some people's kids!! And I do love the t-shirt too, of course mine would have to say '... all girls!'. :DSusie B. Homemakerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09984165869377122217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4912771073425710533.post-62461683551462665582010-05-19T09:44:30.577-07:002010-05-19T09:44:30.577-07:00I don't have that problem exactly but I know h...I don't have that problem exactly but I know how you feel about strangers and word vomit. I've mentioned before how we seem to get the "what happened to her face" comment when Addie breaks out. What's wrong with people? Shut up and mind your own business! lol.Angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09276912162049170768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4912771073425710533.post-91861181535781346202010-05-18T18:45:50.363-07:002010-05-18T18:45:50.363-07:00Ugh, don't think that if Christian was a girl ...Ugh, don't think that if Christian was a girl you wouldn't get the comments. I get the same thing "your done now that you have your girl?" Nope. I am done because I have three. Three is PLENTY! Or "looks like you got the girl you wanted" Your right, I really wanted Tarynn to be a girl, but if she was a boy, that is cool too!Veronicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896135075260085589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4912771073425710533.post-9233500743889021112010-05-18T18:28:40.047-07:002010-05-18T18:28:40.047-07:00I say go for the shirt! It would be so funny to wa...I say go for the shirt! It would be so funny to watch all the faces you get! <br /><br />Some people are just stupid... There are a lot more stupid then people who know better. Sorry.Karahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11970409006403484106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4912771073425710533.post-50880389682195627672010-05-18T17:52:13.740-07:002010-05-18T17:52:13.740-07:00I've heard this too and like you, if we had ha...I've heard this too and like you, if we had had a boy we would have loved hi<br /> dearly but we both wanted another girl and were thrilled when we found out. :-). Ron has said if we could guarantee another girl he'd be more interested in having a third. He loves being the only boy in the house and when your a Father to girls, you're never 'the old man', always 'Daddy'.<br /><br />I guess it's like when your pregnant and everyone wants to know what name you're picking and then when you tell them, they proudly voice their opinion of it. Like, "Oh I went to school with a 'insert name here', he/she was a real jerk."<br /><br />Dont let those rude & thoughtless people occupy one more moment of your mind. I think some people have nothing interesting to say so they just say that. You have 4 awesome guys to love on. Don't sweat it Mama! :-)))))Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06118144024784685052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4912771073425710533.post-6389789732626225132010-05-18T16:40:58.071-07:002010-05-18T16:40:58.071-07:00LOL, i can SOOOO agree only I'm in "The G...LOL, i can SOOOO agree only I'm in "The GIRLS ONLY" club!!!<br />We have 2 daughters. Just 2, only 2, not having anymore. And we hear that ALL the time.<br />"when are you going to try for a boy?"<br />OK, FYI!!! I cannot have anymore children, ever, sorry. But thanks we are learning and dealing with this and I do not need anyone giving me a guilt trip over having 2 of the same sex!~Trema~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06719642517033133753noreply@blogger.com